I wanna start off by saying scheming is wrong. Scheming is bad... So here’s how you do it...
These tips are for those girls who want to branch out from the guys at school or if you just want to meet some new guys. Or maybe because you don’t have many/any guy friends because you go to an all-girl school.
No1: The Gym
The Gym is my number one place to meet guys. Because let’s be honest if they're going to be anywhere it’s the gym. Yes, some guys are trying to lose weight but I think you'll find that the majority of them are just maintaining the amazing body they already have. I personally waltz in there in yoga pants, a sports bra and a hoodie or t-shirt which I’d probably take off. And as a plus you'll get that toned body that you've always wanted. My technique is to make eye contact with someone you wanna get to know and smile. Then after like 5-10 mins casually walk past them while they're really going at it and drop a little compliment e.g. you’re so strong? How heavy? - If they're weight lifting. You might spark a little conversation or you can walk away straight after, you know the whole 'Fluff and Retreat’ flirting technique. If you go on the same days every week, I think you find yourself bumping into the same guys and building friendships. And if you're too shy to go up and directly speak to a guy you don't know try "stretching" to get some attention. This is obviously a little 'out there' but it sure as hell works.
No2: The Mall
It's no secret that the mall is a great way to meet guys but I feel that the whole 'hey, my friend totes likes you' is a little too 'middle school' for me.
My Favourite Technique in this situation is The I.O.U. You and friends will need to split up
You walk over to a guy (who you keep seeing that day) or a group of guys, whatever. And casually ask if you could borrow his/someone’s phone to make a call because your phone ‘died’ .Then call one of your friends who you left asking them where they are. (There, you have a reasonable excuse to call and it will probably be a short convo, plus your friends won’t know what you’re up to). After say thanks, I owe you and I’m ...... by the way. After he tells you his name be all like “oh, what school do you go to?” if you know someone who goes to his school then you could say “Do you know ......?” But your conversation doesn’t have to go in that direction, just a little prompt.
No3: Friend of a Friend
This one’s for when you see a friend with a guy/guys (if it’s her boyfriend then back the hell off). Go up to her and be like “Hey ......!” then hug her. Then say “and hey ........’s friend” and hug them. “What’s your name?” Then Bam! Instant conversation starter. Also this way you appear extreme kind, bubbly and sociable.
No4: Life of the Party
So you’re at this party and there are a ton of guys there, some you know of some you don’t. Dance a little, drink a little and circulate, get to know your surroundings and say hi to friends. Then get to work...
Head over heels: This technique requires you to be a little clumsy. Like fall into his lap/onto him in the staircase. And be little “OMG I’m sorry, I’m so sorry’” and bat those gorgeous mascara tinted lashes. If he’s totally cool about it. Move on to the self introduction and ask him his name. Then, I don’t know, what school he goes to. And so on and so forth and what have you. And I have to say it does look really cute if you and a guy are sitting together on the staircase, Or with your tongue down his throat. (Get in there ;) or just ask him to dance.
Let’s Dance: So you’re on the dance floor getting crazy with the girls and all of a sudden you find yourself dancing with this hot guy, who can’t seem to stop looking at you. Then he’s gone, but you spot him again, say at the drinks table. Here’s what you do. Go up to him casually take a drink and introduce yourself.
P.S. Am I the only one who never eats at parties? Lemme know.
RANDOM TIPS (YAAAAYYYYY)
-If you keep catching a guy staring at you, GO UP TO HIM and start a conversation. At least you know you’re wanted. So you’re a shoe in.
-Parks, coffee shops, parties and movie theatres great places to meet guys
-Play the damsel in distress card. If you ever find yourself in a situation where need someone to show you how to do something or need help or that you’ve lost something, it’s the perfect time to get some attention.
-Improvise and be yourself, don’t be afraid to mix up the tips and technique, or even make up your own ones. Keep it sweet and original.
-Always smell good. And I'm not talking good personal hygiene good, because that’s obvious, I'm talking Taylor Swift Wonderlust, Britney Spears Midnight Fantasy, Viva La Juicy, and Pink Sugar kind of good. If you smell good you’ll be wanted around, and missed when you’re gone.
-Oooze confidence. Confidence is sexy. and no one wants to be a around a drag with low self-esteem.
-Don't fear rejection, see it as practice. and accept it, never force yourself onto anyone.
Kisses, Elle. x
These tips are for those girls who want to branch out from the guys at school or if you just want to meet some new guys. Or maybe because you don’t have many/any guy friends because you go to an all-girl school.
No1: The Gym
The Gym is my number one place to meet guys. Because let’s be honest if they're going to be anywhere it’s the gym. Yes, some guys are trying to lose weight but I think you'll find that the majority of them are just maintaining the amazing body they already have. I personally waltz in there in yoga pants, a sports bra and a hoodie or t-shirt which I’d probably take off. And as a plus you'll get that toned body that you've always wanted. My technique is to make eye contact with someone you wanna get to know and smile. Then after like 5-10 mins casually walk past them while they're really going at it and drop a little compliment e.g. you’re so strong? How heavy? - If they're weight lifting. You might spark a little conversation or you can walk away straight after, you know the whole 'Fluff and Retreat’ flirting technique. If you go on the same days every week, I think you find yourself bumping into the same guys and building friendships. And if you're too shy to go up and directly speak to a guy you don't know try "stretching" to get some attention. This is obviously a little 'out there' but it sure as hell works.
No2: The Mall
It's no secret that the mall is a great way to meet guys but I feel that the whole 'hey, my friend totes likes you' is a little too 'middle school' for me.
My Favourite Technique in this situation is The I.O.U. You and friends will need to split up
You walk over to a guy (who you keep seeing that day) or a group of guys, whatever. And casually ask if you could borrow his/someone’s phone to make a call because your phone ‘died’ .Then call one of your friends who you left asking them where they are. (There, you have a reasonable excuse to call and it will probably be a short convo, plus your friends won’t know what you’re up to). After say thanks, I owe you and I’m ...... by the way. After he tells you his name be all like “oh, what school do you go to?” if you know someone who goes to his school then you could say “Do you know ......?” But your conversation doesn’t have to go in that direction, just a little prompt.
No3: Friend of a Friend
This one’s for when you see a friend with a guy/guys (if it’s her boyfriend then back the hell off). Go up to her and be like “Hey ......!” then hug her. Then say “and hey ........’s friend” and hug them. “What’s your name?” Then Bam! Instant conversation starter. Also this way you appear extreme kind, bubbly and sociable.
No4: Life of the Party
So you’re at this party and there are a ton of guys there, some you know of some you don’t. Dance a little, drink a little and circulate, get to know your surroundings and say hi to friends. Then get to work...
Head over heels: This technique requires you to be a little clumsy. Like fall into his lap/onto him in the staircase. And be little “OMG I’m sorry, I’m so sorry’” and bat those gorgeous mascara tinted lashes. If he’s totally cool about it. Move on to the self introduction and ask him his name. Then, I don’t know, what school he goes to. And so on and so forth and what have you. And I have to say it does look really cute if you and a guy are sitting together on the staircase, Or with your tongue down his throat. (Get in there ;) or just ask him to dance.
Let’s Dance: So you’re on the dance floor getting crazy with the girls and all of a sudden you find yourself dancing with this hot guy, who can’t seem to stop looking at you. Then he’s gone, but you spot him again, say at the drinks table. Here’s what you do. Go up to him casually take a drink and introduce yourself.
P.S. Am I the only one who never eats at parties? Lemme know.
RANDOM TIPS (YAAAAYYYYY)
-If you keep catching a guy staring at you, GO UP TO HIM and start a conversation. At least you know you’re wanted. So you’re a shoe in.
-Parks, coffee shops, parties and movie theatres great places to meet guys
-Play the damsel in distress card. If you ever find yourself in a situation where need someone to show you how to do something or need help or that you’ve lost something, it’s the perfect time to get some attention.
-Improvise and be yourself, don’t be afraid to mix up the tips and technique, or even make up your own ones. Keep it sweet and original.
-Always smell good. And I'm not talking good personal hygiene good, because that’s obvious, I'm talking Taylor Swift Wonderlust, Britney Spears Midnight Fantasy, Viva La Juicy, and Pink Sugar kind of good. If you smell good you’ll be wanted around, and missed when you’re gone.
-Oooze confidence. Confidence is sexy. and no one wants to be a around a drag with low self-esteem.
-Don't fear rejection, see it as practice. and accept it, never force yourself onto anyone.
Kisses, Elle. x
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